Little big words of wisdom..

I've been lately hanging with extremely positive people and what I've noticed it has definitely changed me. In a good way.. These people have been teaching the important thing that one should not think for other people. I've written before about assuming, about how we assume some things are inevitable, how our life, relationships with others, our feelings are about to be in the future. This is one of those assuming things again. We assume other people think this and that. And we shouldn' t. We don't really know how others feel and think unless we ask them, talk with them about things.

For example just the other night I was lying awake in bed, next to my man. and I was thinking that he's probably all fed up with me already because of me hanging in his apartment all the time. Those thoughts created nothing but sadness in me. But luckily I've been spending time with those certain positive people and I've always been a firm believer of talking things through. So I spoke with him about what I've been thinking and he promised to tell me whenever he needs the time on his own, when I should spend more time away, at home or with my own friends. It took the weight off of my heart. And just today morning he said he wishes he could stay in sleeping next to me and that luckily we'll get next to each other again at the evening. You probably guess that it felt pretty damn good to hear such things from him.

I guess all I'm trying to say is, that I was overthinking things instead of asking him and it made me feel sad. So one should stay positive and talk with people instead of assuming they think this or that. And sometimes we might be positively surprised. :)